Balancing You Cock & Pussy Energy

The past week I have been working my ass off going into full on CEO boss bitch mode. It’s been amazing and I’ve been really exercising my cock energy on a whole other level. But because I am going so strong into my outward power, by the evening or in my spare time I have absolutely no interest in getting on the computer and looking at a screen.

Cock energy is about getting shit done, managing people, commitments, finances, schedules saying YES & NO very clearly and generally kicking ass and DOING in the world.

I’ve exercised this part of myself in the past a lot but I have never been able to go fully into it and balance it with my pussy and feminine energy.

Pussy energy is flowing, juicy, surrendered, receptive, relaxed. The part that cries and comes and surrenders and deeply feels, relaxes and receives.

I’ve hit burnout numerous times, suffered adrenal fatigue and had to abandon projects, miss phone calls and cancel events and be generally unreliable and flakely because I had fucked too hard with my cock and not been able to sustain my hard on! Then I’ll spend months in my pussy energy recovering and re-juicing and then I end up in the same place – very rested but with no money and no sustainable way to really support myself and reliant on others to support or provide for me.

Two much of one or the other creates imbalances within our work, life, nervous system and relationships.

At the moment I’m feeling a whole other way of being coming through and these energies are finally balancing within myself and my ability to transition from one to the other is getting easier and easier – it feels fucking amazing.

When I switch off my cock. I am fully switching off, no screens, no work conversations, no more direction or thinking or action. It takes awhile for the hard on to go down but I take a bath, I consciously soften, I massage, I self pleasure, I release emotions, make myself a tea, sit in silence, cuddle with friends, make music and do whatever I need to do however long it takes to FULLY RELAX my nervous system and go deep into feeling pussy vibes.

The ability to switch between the cock and the pussy energy is absolutely the most vital thing a woman can learn to do to really be in her fully power in the world. Making money and your mark on the world, AND being fully orgasmic, radiant and juiced up. Getting shit done and making plans and commitments AND fully rested and relaxed.

If your inner cock energy gets too big and your pussy energy is dry and shutdown. That’s going to really hurt.

If you’re pussy energy gets fully juiced and loved up and you’re cock is small and flacid – you are going to be dissatisfied and unfulfilled.

Having both in equal length, depth and power is WHERE IT’S AT and where you are going to find your juice!

Which one do you need to exercise right now? I find learning how to transition has been the hardest thing to master and takes a very strong commitment and awareness of when you are in COCK and when your are PUSSY and to know it takes a little bit of conscious effort to transition, but wow when you do you can seriously do anything.

I spent my morning on the phone and computer getting shit done. Then I lay out on the grass with home cooked vegies and a cup of tea with my body naked in the sun and lathering my body in oil soaking up the rays. (oh my god byron winter yes!!) Now I’m back in a cafe for another bit of work then I’ll be switching off again to go buy myself some ugg boots (its still cold at night!) and watch the sunset with friends.

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